Are Relationships Supposed To Last For Life? - Mads Larsen - #704

Mads Larsen is a Norwegian author and journalist whose research focuses on the history of human mating ideologies.

The narrative of human romance is an ancient story. But that story has not always remained the same, the last 10,000 years has been a crazy journey through different beliefs on why we should find and stay with a partner and today we get to hear about all the fascinating details.

Expect to learn why it's so illuminating to study the story of mating ideologies across time, how our modern beliefs about finding a partner are historically very unusual, why having a daughter as a farmer could be a useful addition to your farming strategy, why Incels are so unhappy, why old people are the happiest despite evidence to the contrary in the past and much more...

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Timestamps:

(00:00) Why Does Mating Need an Ideology?

(03:09) Our Ancestors’ Typical Mating Strategies

(12:33) The Oldest Mating Ideology

(18:52) Why Churches Imposed Monogamy

(23:20) When Courtship Was Introduced

(34:33) The Basis For Our Current Mating Ideology

(42:39) The Post-1750 Sexual Revolutions

(48:38) Did the Church Lose Control in 1750?

(55:48) Impact of Introducing Contraception

(1:01:30) What is Causing Today’s Mating Dysfunctions?

(1:10:27) Are We On the Verge of a New Mating Era?

(1:23:11) Why Are People So Unhappy?

(1:34:27) How Comparison Can Impact Wellbeing

(1:45:19) Where to Find Mads

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