381: Rejection, Abandonment & Building More Confidence

<p><strong>In today’s episode, we’re digging into the real story behind rejection, abandonment, and the confidence it takes to shut down the negative narratives trying to shape your life.</strong></p><p>I share how my dad’s early years were marked by abandonment and self-rejection—and how everything changed when he met Jesus. I was raised in love and safety, but that <em>same</em> generational thread still tried to attach itself to my story.If you’ve ever felt like you’re fighting patterns you didn’t choose… this conversation is for you.</p><p><strong>What we cover:</strong></p><ul><li><p>Why rejection and abandonment often feel <em>“normal”</em> in our thoughts</p></li><li><p>The moment I realized those same narratives were knocking on my door</p></li><li><p>How generational patterns try to repeat themselves</p></li><li><p>The choice we all face when negative thoughts show up</p></li><li><p>What it looks like to reject self-abandonment and stay connected</p></li><li><p>How God actively orchestrates healing, confidence, and freedom</p></li></ul><p><strong>Connect with Havilah:</strong>✨ ⁠havilahcunnington.com⁠ — Explore Havilah’s books, Bible studies, and upcoming events.</p><p>📚 ⁠truthtotable.com ⁠— Join our free studies, online courses, and Truth Academy community.</p><p>🎙️ ⁠havilahsauthorschool.com⁠ — Ready to write your book? Join ⁠Havilah’s Author School ⁠and get the clarity, structure, and support you need to finally finish your manuscript.</p>