Ryan Opens Up About a Big Personal Decision...
February 4, 2026
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February 4, 2026
Ryan Opens Up About a Big Personal Decision...
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<p>Ryan and Louise kick things off with a new favourite word of the week, a very creative term for “down there”, which quickly sparks a conversation about crossing swords, body hair, and Ryan being put to the test on whether he actually knows the difference between a pad and a tampon.</p><br /><p>Things then take a more personal turn as Ryan opens up, for the first time, about a journey he’s quietly been on over the last few months. He speaks honestly about his decision to have a hair transplant, how it’s made him feel, and why talking about it openly matters to him, especially if it helps open up more honest conversations around confidence and self-image for men.</p><br /><p>We also share where we are on our surrogacy journey, opening up about what the process has really looked like behind the scenes. Louise speaks candidly about why she can’t carry her own baby, and we talk about our next steps in navigating this journey together. </p><br /><p>🗓 New episodes every Wednesday</p><br /><p>📩 We’ve got a NEW email!</p><p>Want to get involved? Email HSSS@srproductions.co.uk or slide straight into our DMs @hesaid.shesaid.podcast.</p><p>We want it all. Your dilemmas, questions, voice notes, stories and opinions. If it’s pod-related, we’re listening.</p><br /><p>🩵 Follow us everywhere</p><p> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hesaid.shesaid.podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a> |<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@hesaidshesaidofficial?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> TikTok</a> |<a href="http://www.youtube.com/@HeSaid.SheSaid.Podcast" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Youtube</a> @hesaid.shesaid.podcast</p><br /><p>And of course… don’t forget to subscribe, follow, rate and review.</p><p>--</p><br /><p>(00:00) Intro to the episode </p><br /><p>(00:56) Leo’s new favourite word of the week</p><br /><p>(02:06) What does “crossing swords” mean?! </p><br /><p>(05:33) Can Ryan explain the difference between tampon and a pad?! </p><br /><p>(15:33) Ryan opens up about his hair transplant decision</p><br /><p>(22:13) Breaking down the stigma around men’s cosmetic procedures</p><br /><p>(33:24) Talking through our IVF process</p><br /><p>(43:16) Understanding why Louise can't carry a baby</p><br /><p>(50:25) Exploring our surrogacy options</p><br /><p>(56:36) Ryan’s perspective on surrogacy</p><br /><p>(58:56) The Japanese philosophy of Misogi</p><hr /><p style="color: grey; font-size: 0.75em;"> Hosted on Acast. See <a href="https://acast.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer" style="color: grey;" target="_blank">acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>
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