{Anniversary Edition} ASK DEREK-How Do I Forgive 'Bad' People?

<p><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Forgiveness is such a loaded subject, partly because we don't <em>really</em> understand what forgiveness</span> means, <span style="font-size: 12pt;">and that there are multiple levels of forgiveness.</span></p> <p><span style="font-size: 12pt;">The most primary level is a sort of superiority; it's very much an ego-driven thing.  At this level, you, to some extent, recognize that unforgiveness is unuseful; there's some level of recognizing that holding a grudge is painful and it's not helping you.</span></p> <p><span style="font-size: 12pt;">The second level is when you're willing to no longer withhold from another individual.   At</span> stage<span style="font-size: 12pt;">, when you think about forgiving someone, there's some degree of either</span> neutrality, <span style="font-size: 12pt;">or maybe even a degree of love, (or at least wanting the best for them) even though there may still be a little bit of a sting because you're still seeing them as having done you wrong.</span></p> <p><span style="font-size: 12pt;">That's a very powerful step, but it's still not the truest meaning of forgiveness, however, it's very advantageous and preferable to the alternative.</span></p> <p><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Here's something to understand: Forgiveness is primarily for you.  If you are withholding love or blessings from somebody else, no matter what, you are actually blocking your own channel of flow.</span></p> <p><span style="font-size: 12pt;">From the Emergence model we understand that whatever is missing is what I'm not giving. If I'm withholding love, gratitude, and joy from anyone or anything, at any time, that much love, gratitude, and joy cannot flow into my life.</span></p> <p><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Listen to the podcast episode above for the full explanation and learn how you can put it to work in your life TODAY.</span></p> <p><span style="font-size: 12pt;">And remember, self-help is shelf help – you have everything you need already!</span></p> <p><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><strong>Stay inspired!</strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Like this episode? Please share it!</span></p> <p><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Want more advanced training? Join my <a href="http://derekrydall.com/academy">Emergence Academy</a>.</span></p> <p><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Other powerful free</span> trainings <span style="font-size: 12pt;">in the podcast library:</span></p> <p><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Rest, Play, Repeat: Embracing Ups & Downs and Finding Flow</span><br /> <span style="font-size: 12pt;">The Fields Are Always Full: How to Transcend Seasons and Cycles, and Experience More Abundance NOW</span><br /> <span style="font-size: 12pt;">Why God Can't Help You</span></p> <p><span style="font-size: 12pt;">To get these</span> trainings <span style="font-size: 12pt;">now or see more episodes available, <a href="http://derekrydall.com/subscribe-to-podcast/">CLICK HERE!</a></span></p> <p><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Subscribe to Podcast in <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/emergence-revolutionary-path/id878870353?mt=2&amp;ls=1" rel="noopener" target="_blank">iTunes</a>, <a href="http://derekrydall.com/subscribe-to-podcast/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Stitcher, via email or Android</a></span></p> <p><span style="font-size: 12pt;">HAVE YOU READ 'EMERGENCE: SEVEN STEPS FOR RADICAL LIFE CHANGE' BOOK YET? Order your copy <a href="http://getemergencebook.com/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">here</a>, PLUS get free bonuses </span></p>