Attention assorted troublemakers and foolish mortals! This week's topic is actually two topics that are intrinsically related, both easy to understand but sometimes difficult to talk about. "Sir" and "miss" can be heavily loaded words, in ways both good and bad. But whenever misgendering happens, remember it's about the people misgendering you and not about YOU. Professor and writer of Stained Glass Woman Zoe Ann Wendler (Doc Impossible) joins us to discuss panopticons, how trans people are always observed, and sticky guesses! Aye Captain? Yes Chef!

ZOE ANN WENDLER

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Misgendering and Passing

Search the Record

Tilly Episodes Around September 5, 2023

Trans Parents and Mother's Day

Anecdotal Trans Healthcare

Giving Yourself Permission to Explore Gender

Cis People Get Gender Affirming Healthcare Too

Rainbow Capitalism

Parents Who Will Never Know the Real You

Trans Freedom (and Underwear)

The Matrix and its Trans Allegories

Compliments

Transition Setbacks

Three Year Retrospective

Cis is Not a Slur

Confidence

Privilege (time and money)

Finding Our Trans Style

Misgendering and Passing

Proactive Allyship (be an accomplice)

The Trans Allegory of Silo s1, part 1

The Trans Allegory of Silo s1, part 2

The Trans Allegory of Silo s1, part 3

The Trans Allegory of Silo s1, part 4

The Trans Allegory of Silo s1, part 5

The Trans Allegory of Silo s1, part 6

The Trans Allegory of Silo s1, part 7

The Trans Allegory of Silo s1, part 8

The Trans Allegory of Silo s1, part 9

Trans Voices 1: Gendering

Trans Voices 2: Hearing the True You

Trans Voices 3: Interview with Speech-language Pathologist Jein Yi

Trans Grief 1 (aka The Past 3, aka The New Past 2)

Trans Grief 2 (aka The Past 3, aka The New Past 2)

Summary