#365 Marni Kinrys - The Truth About Dating, Gender Roles & Attraction
May 29, 2025
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Episode 365 · May 29, 2025
#365 Marni Kinrys - The Truth About Dating, Gender Roles & Attraction
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#365 Marni Kinrys - The Truth About Dating, Gender Roles & Attraction
Summary
<p>Marni Kinrys, widely known as 'The Wing Girl', is a veteran dating coach with over 20 years of experience helping men navigate the complex world of attraction and relationships. Marni shares her journey to becoming the first female voice in the male-dominated pickup artist community. Zuby and Marni discuss gender differences in communication, coaching, and romantic expectations, as well as delusion, body image, and the role of honesty in dating. The conversation also covers how technology and social media have shifted dating dynamics, the decline in marriage, and predictions for the future of gender relations.</p><p><br /></p><p>Free Video Series with Marni: https://fwithher.com/zuby</p><p><br /></p><p>Subscribe to the 'Real Talk With Zuby' podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify & more - https://fanlink.tv/zubypodcast</p><p><br /></p><p>Timestamps:</p><p>(00:00) Introduction</p><p>(00:41) Marni’s background & coaching journey</p><p>(04:39) Entering the PUA world</p><p>(06:46) Transforming dating advice</p><p>(08:31) Reactions to her work & motivation</p><p>(13:19) Meeting her husband & family life</p><p>(16:10) Raising boys & coaching men vs women</p><p>(18:29) Insights from coaching men</p><p>(21:06) Childhood & emotional dynamics</p><p>(22:21) Coaching styles & communication</p><p>(25:25) Lies, delusion & body image</p><p>(56:22) Tech’s impact on dating & gender roles</p><p>(1:19:51) Future of relationships & uplifting men</p><p>(1:27:35) Outro</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p>_</p><p><br /></p><p>Follow Zuby:</p><p>https://x.com/zubymusic</p><p>https://instagram.com/zubymusic</p><p>https://facebook.com/zubymusic</p><p><br /></p><p>Follow Marni:</p><p>https://winggirlmethod.com</p><p>https://x.com/winggirlmethod</p><p>https://instagram.com/winggirlmethod</p><p><br /></p><p>_</p><p><br /></p><p>Merch, Music & Books - https://teamzuby.com</p><br /><br />Support this podcast at — <a href="https://redcircle.com/real-talk-with-zuby/donations" rel="payment">https://redcircle.com/real-talk-with-zuby/donations</a><br /><br />Advertising Inquiries: <a href="https://redcircle.com/brands">https://redcircle.com/brands</a><br /><br />Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href="https://redcircle.com/privacy">https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>
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