Overthinking About Social Media Comparison
July 10, 2024
1,112
34
4
3.42%
Search the Record
IndexedEvery word spoken in this episode is indexed. Type any phrase to jump straight to the moment it was said.
Type any word or phrase that may have been spoken. Click a result to seek the player to that exact moment.
Try a name, a topic, or a quoted line
Amanda Montell Episodes Around July 10, 2024
See what was published immediately before and after this episode.
1:04:58Now PlayingOverthinking About Social Media Comparison
YouTube Description
as posted by the channelYou log onto Instagram and within five seconds of scrolling, your algorithm has your self-esteem in a death grip. It serves you: 1) a blissed-out engagement announcement from a former high school classmate, 2) a carousel of glamorous vacation pics from a coworker, 3) a random influencer looking flawless on a rooftop... and now, you immediately feel like garbage. These people have NOTHING to do with your life, and yet social media has forced them into your brain space. What's worse? Their beauty, wealth, and success seem to be directly depleting yours. What causes us to irrationally compare-despair on platforms like Instagram and TikTok? What makes those illusory personas feel so materially "threatening" to us, even though we know that social media "isn't real" and no one's life is perfect? Is there an evolutionary explanation? How have our comparison habits changed or gotten worse since the early days of social media? And how can we feel better? Joining host Amanda Montell (@amanda_montell) are two special guests, here to help soothe our thought spirals surrounding social media comparison: Jemma Sbeg (@jemmasbeg), host of The Psychology of Your 20s podcast, and Britt Frank (@britt_frank), neuropsychotherapist and author of The Science of Stuck.
- Get tickets to see Amanda on tour!
July 13: Minneapolis, MN — The Big Magical Cult Show at Cedar Cultural Center (buy tickets here!)
July 14: Chicago, IL — The Big Magical Cult Show at the DEN (buy tickets here!)
- Join the "Magical Overthinkers Club" by following the pod on Instagram @magicaloverthinkers.
- To access early, ad-free episodes and more, subscribe to the Magical Overthinkers Substack.
- Pick up a hard copy of Amanda's book The Age of Magical Overthinking: Notes on Modern Irrationality, or listen to the audiobook. If you enjoyed this episode, check out chapter 4, titled "The Shit-Talking Hypothesis."
- Sources:
Zero-Sum Bias: Perceived Competition Despite Unlimited Resources
Win–Win Denial: The Psychological Underpinnings of Zero-Sum Thinking
Gendered Influence of Downward Social Comparisons on Current and Possible Selves
Gender Differences in Social Comparison Processes and Self-Concept Among Students
Research on Adolescents Regarding the Indirect Effect of Depression, Anxiety, and Stress Between TikTok Use Disorder and Memory Loss
Shine Theory: Why Powerful Women Make the Greatest Friends
Guests & Subjects Covered
Sentinel Indexing in Progress
Metadata and chapters are available. Claim extraction for this episode is pending.
All video content is delivered via YouTube embedded players in accordance with the YouTube Terms of Service. Sentinel provides research tools that promote discovery and accountability across political media.