On Masculinity & Achieving Things

Hello Bulldogs! John Sonmez from Bulldog Mindset Here, where I teach you how to go from the Victim Mindset to the Bulldog Mindset.

TodayIi'll be responding to a question from one of my active subscribers Grant C., about Masculinity, achieve things and motivations in life.

Grants asks:

Hey John.

I have E-mailed you a few times now. I'm Grant, an avid follower of yours who really enjoys hearing what you have to say... I am serious, I literally tell myself in the back of my mind on a daily basis, what would John do in this situation, trying to associate your prospective thoughts together.

Although I don't agree with you on everything. you are someone who I aspire to be, being a different version though, not EXACTLY like you of course.

John, A am having a deep sense of trouble in questioning who I am as a person. No victim mindset here, but I feel like most of my peers in college are just not at the wisdom, or even WANT to develop some sort of Bulldog Mindset... I am not saying everyone has to be a self-dev guru, but my motivations and aspirations in life are beyond the college years.

I want to develop my social skills, become a better man (just bought The Rational Male), and understand what being a real man is like... so I am not saying the party scene is completely out and I think it's bad to be in the party scene... I just aspire to really maximize my blessings, my gifts, and all the things I have been given in this world to a maximum.

Is my thinking wrong here man? You talk about this a lot, not living by other standards. Hell I created a damn video on that about women and related cybersecurity (you've

seen the video).

My own mother and father, who are mostly supportive, have told me that college is the only way and that I should simply have fun as I am in college, and stop focusing on my career so much, "joing the Greek System Grant!" Again, I focus on my career and build social skills at the same time. I can't do it though man. It's in my nature to be and continue to be someone who goes for it... I feel like it's my responsibility to finish college as they are funding it too.

My heart is not in college, I have found and identified gap in this industry, cybersecurity. The degree is a waste of mu time. I don't just say this either, I wake up at 5:30 AM and bust my ass to ensure I am an action taker and not one of "those" who is coming up with BS. I know, however, sometimes you just got to do both until you have the results to back you up, until then, you have to be in college?

For girls, this definitly sounds like the scarcity mindset, but i am more mature than them (and I am in no means superior at all), just a little bit further along in my maturity: I am thinking about myself as a man and not a boy who goes to parties and smokes Weed. I don't watch porn and I am not in the hookup scene, I am in need to be patient with that.

Parts of me, want to buy a one-way ticket with a backpack, laptop, two or three pairs of clothes, and really, truly understand who I am as a person...

I know this totally sounds like self-doubt: Should I just stop doing att of this, stop listening to you, stop with the YouTube, stop with the website, and get my college degree, and just be that "normal" guy ...

Long E-mail: I know ... If you ever get the chance to read this. thank you ....

I have attached my 2019 goals if you were curious...

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