How To Stop Being A NICE GUY Once & For All And How I Almost Got Into A Fight

Hey Bulldogs! John Sonmez from Bulldog Mindset Here, where I teach you how to go from the Victim Mindset to the Bulldog Mindset.

How to stop being a nice guy once and for all, this is a topic that had been suggested to me many times before and it seems somewhat of a curse because it's a programming you can't really actively break.

It's impossible for you to just be constantly aware of your reactions in hundreds of situations that are accruing every week and think to yourself "Am I being a nice guy?"

So it's not a valid way to stop being a nice guy once and for all, but what you can do is be dangerous demonstrate that you're someone who's capable of going down to low levels and resort to violent actions, that you won't back down.

And no you don't have to be an asshole, I will demonstrate how I almost had a fight yesterday with a drunk guy but I disarmed it and we ended up laughing and discussing business afterward.

A lot of you guys think that you're in the friend zone, but honestly you're in the nice guy zone. As I said you don't have to be jerk or an asshole in order to get it your way, in order to stop being a nice guys. You just have to be true to yourself, be selfish and take actions that are into your benefit, stand up for yourself, show that you have these capabilities, but at the same time give people the benefit of the doubt, give them a second chance and have them let them save some face, that the balance and if they cross you boundaries you resort to those more unattractive solutions, and stop letting people walk all over you.

You can be a good person, a nice person but also dominant aggressive with a dark side to you.

And this is the army of guys I'm trying to build, not the nice guys and not the bad aggressive type of guys but a balanced version, those who can play the higher ground and avoid situation that aren't beneficial to anyone but also ready to go down and wrestle in the mud and even play dirtier than the enemy.

I'll go more on how to stop being a nice guy once and for all in this video and tell you story of how I almost got into a fight and disarmed it.

Anyways guy I hope this video was of a benefit to you and I'll see you in the next one.

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