How to Deal With Awkward Situations With Women

Hey Bulldogs! John Sonmez from Bulldog Mindset Here, where I teach you how to go from the Victim Mindset to the Bulldog Mindset.

Today's topic is for guys, dealing with awkward situations when you're on a date with some girl. Since I coach a lot of guys I know that's a common situation to be in and the common reaction is that hey want to get out of there as fast as the speed of light. Obviously that's not the right thing to do especially if you're hoping for second dates, so how to deal with awkward situation on dates?

So this topic was a request from one of you guys, this follower asked my advice on going on a date where he's gonna spend a lot of time with this girl, fearing that he might not be able to keep the conversation interesting and end up in a awkward date he asked my advice on the matter.

The first thing you need to understand is that you need to be comfortable, you must not worry about keeping the conversation interesting, you feel like you need to be entertainment for a woman. You're the man you should not worry about that, you should be yourself meaning be comfortable in whatever situation you're in and don't try to compensate and act over the top. To be honest trying to impress someone will just end up with you become a jester where you have to keep coming up with new tricks and once you can't come up with any new tricks then you end up in a awkward date.

Taking this guys situation as an example, this girls want to go on a date with you, well then just show up, maybe there are gonna be some moment of silence, we so be it, it's fine, it's great it's an ability to demonstrate is showing that you are somewhat comfortable with moments of silence and awkwardness.

You try to make her as comfortable as possible, that wrong. Put her in your environment, if she's uncomfortable you can help her a bit, but don't be in her frame, you're the man, you're the guy that needs to control the frame.

I don't know exactly what you guys are trying to accomplish from getting date, whether be it having a girlfriend, a one night stand etc... But the worst way you can do it is by making the other person feel like they're used. Putting yourself in those type of awkward situations show that you have no problem investing a bit of time and patience with them, which is a great that you can use to flip these situations into your advantage.