Caught My Girlfriend ON TINDER - What Now?

Hey Bulldogs! John Sonmez from Bulldog Mindset Here, where I teach you how to go from the Victim Mindset to the Bulldog Mindset, how to be a man and how to become the best version of yourself!

Well tell me guys, what would you do if you find your girlfriend on tinder? feel sorry for yourself? hate her because she's not loyal? cheat on her? or maybe turn MGTOW and stop dealing with women once and for all!

Well none of that exactly if productive and it will just serve to make the situation worse in some cases... So in today's video we will learn how to deal with such situation and how does the female psyche work, stoic philosophy, frame control, about being the MAN in the relationship, a man with standards an values and keeping those standards and values in place so you don't end up getting used abused, walked on and taken advantage of them!

This is again a topic suggestion from one of you guys, a brief version of this follower's story goes like this, he is living with his girlfriend who he found out she was on tinder by one of his friends, she said she was looking for female friends because has none, but showed up for a guy!

Now first thing to mention, if she really was looking for female friends she would have told him, and that will show how honest she is about it. But regardless we know the real motive she's looking for guys, possibly looking for a hook up or a one night stand, and I'm pretty sure my follower who sent me this also now this.

So what to do?

The first thing to do when you're confronted by reality if that you should accept reality, don't try to justify it or denying it... accept reality so you can move on. This kind of behavior is to be expected, this can happen and will happen to a large number of people around the world, so you must accept the fact that it can happen to you too!

But don't take it personally, they're not doing it on purpose to hurt you or because they hate you, but rather that's their program and they're idiots and they don't know any better! However this doesn't' mean you should excuse their behavior, but rather not getting agitated or angry because o fit!

If you have a girlfriend or a significant other and they cheat on you, or you caught them on tinder, that's not something you should be depressed and lose your whole life about it, yes it's hard, it's bad and it hurts, but it's again it's reality and accepting it is the only way that you can move forward.