Dr Arthur Brooks
Dr Arthur Brooks
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Why do breakups hurt so much?

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January 14, 2026

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At an evolutionary level, separation signals the risk of being cast out of the tribe and left alone. That’s partly why the pain of a breakup can feel catastrophic and final, even when it isn’t.

Your brain is trying to protect you by making the emotional cost feel unbearable.

The pain is real, but it is temporary. When you understand it for what it is, a powerful biological response rather than a verdict on your future, you can endure it without letting it define you.

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