The Single Mindset Shift That Turned My Tragedy Into Meaning

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In this powerful talk, a Marine veteran shares how he transformed the darkest moment of his life—losing both legs in Afghanistan—into a mission of Extreme Ownership, resilience, and leadership. When everything felt out of his control, he discovered the one thing he could own: his attitude.

This keynote walks through the journey from injury to recovery, from ICU to the Paralympic Games, from feeling broken to redefining the narrative around veterans. He explains how taking ownership of even the smallest thing—your response, your mindset, your attitude—can change not only your life, but the lives of the people who depend on you.

Across running 31 marathons in 31 days, recovering at Walter Reed, and facing doubt, fear, and pain, he reveals the simple framework that helped him move forward:

1. Ask: What is the truth?

2. Accept it completely.

3. Ask: How can I use this to help others?

4. Take action.

This message is for anyone facing adversity—leaders, teams, veterans, parents, entrepreneurs, and anyone who’s ever wondered, “How much more can I give?”

If you’ve ever struggled with things outside your control, this story will show you how to lead yourself, lead others, and turn hardship into purpose.