I Can Live Without Sex—But Not Without Connection: A Conversation with Erin Moniz

In this candid conversation, Josh and Rev. Dr. Moniz trace the roots of “romance idolatry,” examine the fallout of evangelical purity culture, and propose a gospel-anchored theology of intimacy that elevates friendship, family, and marriage. Moniz explains why emerging adults wrestle with identity, loneliness, and dating-app fatigue, and shows how Scripture’s friendship-parent-marriage motifs reveal God’s plan for holistic connection. Listeners will hear practical advice on cultivating adult friendships, embracing therapy and spiritual direction, and becoming communities where every relationship—married or single—points back to God’s redemptive love. Keywords: Christian intimacy, purity culture, friendship, emerging adults, gospel-centered relationships.  

Guest Bio

Rev. Dr. Erin F. Moniz (D.Min., Trinity School for Ministry) is a deacon in the Anglican Church of North America and serves as Associate Chaplain and Director for Chapel at Baylor University. A trained conciliator, mediator, and conflict coach, she disciples emerging adults toward healthy, gospel-centered relationships. Her debut book, Knowing and Being Known (InterVarsity Press, 2025), draws on theology, psychology, and years of campus ministry to re-imagine intimacy for today’s church. She lives in Waco, Texas, with her husband, Michael, and two famously chatty cats.

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Order the Book: Knowing and Being Known: Hope for All Our Intimate Relationships

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