This is the Opposite of Consent - It is a Setup: The Voice Memo Everyone Is Talking About.
July 10, 2026
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A voice memo has been going around the app, where a man who has been on two dates with a woman lays out, in careful consent-sounding language, that a third date needs to include physical intimacy or he is out. A lot of people are holding it up as a model of how consent should work. Hawk sees the opposite.
Playing the full clip, Hawk explains why this reads less like honest communication and more like breadcrumbing and pressure. The tell, in his view, is that the memo was recorded and saved. After only two dates, when a woman does not yet know this man's last name, his friends, or anything real about him, a message documenting that the next date will involve sex functions as a prepared alibi, something to play for detectives later.
Hawk's argument is direct: this is consent being used as a weapon. He walks through the difference between hearing this after months of dating versus after a second date with a near-stranger, and his advice to women who receive a memo like this is to not respond, to not see the person again, and to share the details with friends. His verdict is that this is a setup, not consent.
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