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Guy Sengstock and I talk Marriage and Yearning for Home

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February 6, 2020

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Guy is the inventor of "circling" which he describes as conversational yoga. It's a way of practicing intimacy and authenticity in conversation which you will see him practice in this conversation. This is a guy with which you can really have a satisfying conversation.

Our first conversation where he shares his story

Guy's channel

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Marriage

It didn’t provide a relationship

Secure attachment

The world shows up different

Thought that freedom was supposed to be the mandala

The obsession with preserving it at some level

The sacrifice is giving up the guarding of the individual freedom

Guy, and what he’s inside of

Wisdom

Near death experience

The whole game has changed but it’s not apparent how strange it is

You go on a dating site, you go on interviews

It’s a different understanding of what a self is and what a relationship is

The self will be constituted by that relationship

We don’t see a future, a telos but a thing to optimize

An age in which we’ve lost any sense of home

Sense of deep familiarity

In the danger is the saving power

The age of technology

We don’t produce history

It’s not an object of my production

Really SEE it

Develop it beyond itself

Deep intelligibility

Being with what is

To be alive is to be in trouble at some level

We can’t attain it.

Yearning

Implicit is a homelessness

The pleasure of the inferior

Sistine chapel, the fingers don’t touch

The agony and the ecstasy

Our innate homelessness allows for the importance of home to be important but never achieved

CS Lewis Mere Christianity

Walter Wangarin Crafting Your Marriage to Last (the marriage book PVK referred to).

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