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Guy Sengstock and I talk Marriage and Yearning for Home
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February 6, 2020
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1:52:53Now PlayingGuy is the inventor of "circling" which he describes as conversational yoga. It's a way of practicing intimacy and authenticity in conversation which you will see him practice in this conversation. This is a guy with which you can really have a satisfying conversation.
Our first conversation where he shares his story
Guy's channel
Notes
Marriage
It didn’t provide a relationship
Secure attachment
The world shows up different
Thought that freedom was supposed to be the mandala
The obsession with preserving it at some level
The sacrifice is giving up the guarding of the individual freedom
Guy, and what he’s inside of
Wisdom
Near death experience
The whole game has changed but it’s not apparent how strange it is
You go on a dating site, you go on interviews
It’s a different understanding of what a self is and what a relationship is
The self will be constituted by that relationship
We don’t see a future, a telos but a thing to optimize
An age in which we’ve lost any sense of home
Sense of deep familiarity
In the danger is the saving power
The age of technology
We don’t produce history
It’s not an object of my production
Really SEE it
Develop it beyond itself
Deep intelligibility
Being with what is
To be alive is to be in trouble at some level
We can’t attain it.
Yearning
Implicit is a homelessness
The pleasure of the inferior
Sistine chapel, the fingers don’t touch
The agony and the ecstasy
Our innate homelessness allows for the importance of home to be important but never achieved
CS Lewis Mere Christianity
Walter Wangarin Crafting Your Marriage to Last (the marriage book PVK referred to).
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