The Hidden Cost of Positive Thinking

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Everything you've been taught about confidence is built on a single mistake. You've done the thing: stood in the bathroom before the big meeting, hands on hips, chest out, whispering an affirmation off a sticky note, then walked in feeling exactly the same, or worse. Here's what nobody tells you. The modern idea of confidence was invented by an anxious 1940s preacher named Norman Vincent Peale, who took a personal coping mechanism and sold it to the world as a universal cure. In this first chapter, Drew and I trace where all of it came from, the affirmations, the power poses, the positive thinking, and why it rests on the error I call the Peel Fallacy: the belief that you have to feel confident before you can perform. We get into the power pose study that collapsed when nobody could replicate it, the research showing that vividly fantasizing about success can sap your motivation, and the strange lineage that runs from Ralph Waldo Emerson straight to The Secret. On this topic, the self-help advice and the actual psychology might be further apart than on anything else we've covered.

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