Prof Sam Vaknin
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Abuser in Your Mind: Self-stalking (Starts 16:00)

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Coping with Abuse Tips Sheet

Phases of Intimate Relationship with the Narcissist

Self-stalking persecutory objects and internalized voices (introjects): misidentifying them as external, not internal and so actually psychosis and we need to reframe

The voice of absence and counterfactuals (what if)

Colludes with sadistic superego or inner critic: guilt, shame, doubt, self-loathing, self-destructiveness

Success of hoovering is in order to silence these voices

In external mortification as well

Introjection is defense mechanism against neglect, abuse, trauma, abandonment: identification, incorporation, internalization

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