Prof Sam Vaknin
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Abuser in Your Mind: Self-stalking (Starts 16:00)
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Coping with Abuse Tips Sheet
Phases of Intimate Relationship with the Narcissist
Self-stalking persecutory objects and internalized voices (introjects): misidentifying them as external, not internal and so actually psychosis and we need to reframe
The voice of absence and counterfactuals (what if)
Colludes with sadistic superego or inner critic: guilt, shame, doubt, self-loathing, self-destructiveness
Success of hoovering is in order to silence these voices
In external mortification as well
Introjection is defense mechanism against neglect, abuse, trauma, abandonment: identification, incorporation, internalization
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