Resist Narcissist’s Spotting, Auditioning
May 5, 2025
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as posted by the channelWATCH How Narcissist Tests You 3 Times: Will YOU Pass?
Role of PNS (pathological narcissistic space) in spotting
In spotting phase, narcissist stares, glares, scans, and analyzes. Shy away. Avoid eye contact. Walk away. Surround yourself with others.
After initial contact, in the auditioning phase, the narcissist subjects you to 3 tests:
1. Are you capable of being idealized? Minimal traits, assets, and behaviors.
2. Are you able to provide 2 of the 4 Ss? Sex: find him irresistible, enthusiastic, consensual-submissive, prone to sexual fantasies, unboundaried-kinky, self-trashing, promiscuous. Services (that he needs and lacks). Supply (narcissistic or sadistic): adoring, uncritical, submissive, masochistic, self-loathing. Safety: addictive personality, maternal bonding, loyal, inertial.
3. Are you vulnerable to shared fantasy? Damaged-broken, daydreamer, abhors reality, romantic (even as a friend), grandiose, self-love deficit.
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