Prof Sam Vaknin
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How Victim and Abuser Idealize Each Other (Co—idealization, Competitive Victimhood)

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Co-idealization, not idealization (hall of mirrors effect).

Idealization of uniqueness could apply to negative traits: demonizing, mythologizing, and villainizing the abuser is a form of idealization.

The victims idealizes herself by exaggerating the evil of her abuser: it renders her a unique, unprecedented victim.

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