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The Real Reason Avoidants Fear Closeness

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August 27, 2025

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“Closeness means I’ll lose myself.”

That’s the subconscious fear many avoidants carry into adulthood, because closeness in childhood often came with strings attached: pressure, responsibility, or emotional abandonment.

So when things get serious, they retreat.

But real love doesn’t require self-abandonment. It requires safety, boundaries, and security... skills you can learn!

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