Give Your Partner the Gift of Presence

In the beginning of a relationship, there’s so much passion. So much excitement. But over time, you drift apart. The passion fades. We often accept this as a part of the cycle of a relationship. We settle into a pattern that feels more like friendship than passionate love. But you can learn how to build an extraordinary relationship. Start at and watch the video above for more.

There are triggers that can make both men and women turn on and off. It’s the power of polarity the ways that masculine energy and feminine energy complement each other that makes relationships so exciting. But this power also causes problems. Learn more about the law of polarity at and watch this video to learn how men can make it work for them.

In this video, Tony has a message for the guys – but ladies, you'll appreciate it too. What does your partner (whether it's the one you have or the one you desire) really, truly want? The trigger that affects women most deeply is your presence. There is nothing more powerful than presence when there’s real love involved. (Many women even respond to a man who is present but doesn’t really love them.) Presence is what opens a woman, what earns her love and loyalty.

Yet it can be difficult for men to be present. Masculine energies tend to focus on one thing at a time. This is why sports are so appealing. It’s why masculine energies can focus on problem-solving for hours. Why they’re so present when they are pursuing a woman – but that focus can wane. Feminine energies take in everything all at once. They have diffused awareness, as if they are experiencing multiple conversations at once. These polar opposite communication styles often present problems in relationships.

What makes women feel you’re not present? When you’re not honest. Most men want to be honest, but they don’t want disagreement. They get worn out by words. But disengaging turns them into pleasers – and most women don’t want pleasers. Pleasers don’t earn respect. Accommodation doesn’t produce passion, it doesn’t produce exciting intimacy. A strong presence does.

Knowing what you need to do and actually doing it is the difference between a passionate, fulfilling relationship and a friendship. Discover the power of presence at and give your partner that gift today. Make decisions. Tell the truth. Say what you mean. Don’t placate. Listen. And attend Unleash the Power Within to reveal even more powerful ways to take your relationship to the next level.

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