Igniting the Spark of Polarity in Relationships

We all know opposites attract. But why is that? Watch this video to learn more about polarity: the reason we feel a spark with certain energies.

We have intense physical chemistry with those who have an opposite energy to our own. Whether masculine or feminine, this energy is not gender-based. Every man and woman has varying degrees of both masculine and feminine energy – but one is a natural dominant force inside you.

What makes a relationship work is things in common; what makes a relationship passionate is things being different. If you have different values, the relationship won’t work. But if you have different energies, that’s where the electricity comes from. In any relationship where there is sexual attraction and deep intimate connection, you’ll find the power of opposite energies at play.

Plenty of people have things in common – they’re called friends. If you’re both masculine or both feminine, there won’t be any sensuality. There won’t be the sexual “spark” that is one of the three keys to real passion. This lack of passion can also happen to couples who once had the spark, but let it fade.

Depolarization happens to many long-term relationships. Life takes over. There are bills to pay and kids to raise. You’re both tired. You’re both stressed out. Instead of embracing your partner’s natural energy, you may begin to find them needy – even annoying. So you put on a mask, taking on the opposing energy in order to place a barrier between yourself and your stressors in life.

Before you throw your hands up and say “I’m done” – or worse, accept the depolarization because it becomes comfortable – know that you CAN get that spark back in your relationship. You can learn how to embrace your true energy and the energy of your partner.

Feminine energies are driven by emotion. They seek connection and want to give and receive love. At their best, they live in a state of appreciation and grace. But when their energy is not nurtured, they close off emotionally and sexually. How can you nurture your feminine partner? Feminine energies need to feel seen. They need to feel safe. And they need to feel understood.

Masculine energies are driven by goals. They need to have a purpose, a direction in which to direct their focus. This incredible focus is their biggest power, allowing them to be decisive and overcome any challenge. But it can also make them seem distant. To nurture a masculine energy, let go of criticism and expectations and replace them with appreciation.

Ready to harness the power of polarity and create a deeper connection with your partner? Attend the next Date With Destiny event.

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Date With Destiny is unlike ANY other event on the planet – it's Tony's favorite event because of the depth of transformation that occurs. During this intensive program, participants will eradicate destructive subconscious behaviors, create personal vision statements and use Tony’s proprietary 9 Elements of Impact System to get an overview of everything that influences the world they live in. Graduates of the program range from people like Grammy winner musician Melissa Etheridge to world-renowned dancer, choreographer, actor and singer Derek Hough.

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