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Esther Perel ON: Finding Love & the Real Reason Couples Break Up

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Summary

Esther Perel talks with Jay Shetty about how the quality of our relationships affect our daily life, the right mindset when seeking love, creating a connection, or keeping a partnership, and the biggest relationship challenges during the pandemic.

Belgian psychotherapist Esther Perel is a New York Times bestselling author, speaker and podcast host. Her celebrated TED talks have garnered more than 30 million views and she is also the host of the popular podcast Where Should We Begin? and How's Work?. Her newest project is Where Should We Begin - A Game of Stories. Learn more at EstherPerel.com/TheGame

What We Discuss with Esther:

00:00 Intro

02:17 The quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives

04:37 Relationship challenges while in quarantine and lockdown

08:55 Approaching a relationship at times of pressure

13:26 Resetting expectations of ourselves and boundaries of our space

18:23 When you’re putting an effort but your partner is unresponsive

22:14 Skills we lost in the pandemic and the skills we gained

27:47 Playing the ‘Where Should We Begin?’ game

33:58 Asking boring questions makes you feel that people are boring

36:48 Relationships about death, sex, and money

39:48 The intention or mindset one should approach love and relationships when seeking out a partner

42:57 From feeling madly in love to then feeling out of love, when they weren’t truly in love

45:36 What are the deepest, truest root reasons that relationships fail?

52:00 Have you been affected by the experience of infidelity in your life?

57:21 When to break up and move, when to stay and hold on

59:55 Fill in The Blanks

01:01:30 Esther on the Final Five

01:06:30 Meeting people who are truly happy and purposeful

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Episode Resources:

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