5 Reasons You Are NOT Getting Laid Even Though You Are Good Looking

Hey Bulldogs! John Sonmez from Bulldog Mindset Here, where I teach you how to go from the Victim Mindset to the Bulldog Mindset, how to be a man and how to become the best version of yourself!

In this video I'll tell you why even though you're good looking you're not getting laid!

I get this question a lot of times from my followers, via E-mails, Instagram etc... following the usual theme "I'm goo looking but I can't get a girlfriend, I can't get laid etc..."

Some of i is delusion some it is just inflated self-esteem but a lot of it has to do with you, because you don't have to be a good looking guy in order to attract girls, or to get laid.

Let's say that looks matter okay? and let's say you're really a good looking guy, but aren't you getting laid or attracting girls?

And that's where I'll put your head straight because just by being good looking or having a girl that digs you isn't enough. By getting into the 5 reasons you are not getting laid or attracting girls, you'll understand what I mean...

First things first, you're not approaching, I talk to a lot of guys who are good looking when I was in the modeling industry but still aren't really getting a lot of women and girls around them and I found out that their hole strategy revolve around just being present and waiting for the the girl to approach them. Which is an extremely poor strategy.

Unlike guys, girls don't approach that often mainly for reasons that I will get into in the video, however what you need to keep in mind is that you as a guy have to do the work and the initial approach.

You must be the leader, you have to lead and initiate the approach.

Second, asking stupid questions and creating a platonic tone, like you're in some interview where you're just pushing question after question in her direction.

Setting a frame in that direction makes you direct things into a friendship type of relationship which is what you don't want to do.

Instead you've got to put bluntly and clear that you're not here to be friends but in a relationship, ask questions that follows that notion, like do what's the craziest have you done in a vegas, do you like girls? because I can introduce you to that blonde over there etc... make the conversation flirtatious with a little bit of pull and teasing here and there.