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If you wish you were more charismatic, listen up.
According to behavioral researcher and confidence expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai, there are 2 types of charisma - one draws people in, and one gets people to stick around.
Captivating charisma is what draws people in. The big, loud, performative energy that grabs people’s attention in the moment.
Magnetic charisma is what gets people to stick around. The quiet, grounded presence that makes people feel seen, valued, and drawn to you after you got their attention.
You don’t need to be the life of the party to be charismatic.
You just need to develop the qualities that make people feel seen and appreciated in your presence.
In this episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast, Dr. Zahrai shares simple ways to do just that; she’ll teach you how to speak with more clarity and confidence, how to be a better conversationalist, and how to walk into every room with more confidence.
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