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In today’s episode, you’re going to learn what nobody tells you about grief and loss.
Whether you’ve lost someone recently, years ago, or are anticipating a loss, this conversation will give you clarity, relief, and a way forward.
Or if someone you love is grieving and you feel helpless and want to know how to support them, after this conversation, you will know exactly what to say and do.
Joining Mel today is David Kessler, one of the world’s most renowned experts on grief and loss and bestselling author of eight books, who has spent more than 40 years helping millions of people through the hardest moments of their lives.
David has lived profound loss himself, and he brings a rare combination of research, compassion, honesty, and hard-earned wisdom.
What he shares today will change the way you understand grief, your own emotions, and what healing actually looks like.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
-The real reason grief feels so confusing (and why you’re not “doing it wrong”)
-The biggest mistakes people make when they’re grieving
-What to say (and what never to say) when someone you love is grieving
- Why waves of sadness hit you out of nowhere
- What grief bursts and love bursts are and what they mean
-Why guilt is so common after loss and how to release it
-How to carry your love forward without being trapped in pain
-The surprising ways laughter and anger help you heal
Today, David offers you a simple framework to live with more peace, grace, and meaning after loss.
If you’ve ever felt alone in your grief, confused by your emotions, or pressured to “move on,” this conversation is for you.
You are not doing it wrong. You are not alone.
And with David’s clear, compassionate guidance, you’ll understand how healing can become possible.
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