Prof Sam Vaknin
Prof Sam Vaknin
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How Narcissist's Inner Child Sees YOU

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June 26, 2024

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Narcissist's inner child is not his/her true self: it is a compendium of needs, especially the need to find a substitute mother and the need to separate and individuate.

IDEALIZATION in shared fantasy

She is ... GOOD MOTHER (breast)

Perfect, ideal, all good

Secure base: safe, trustworthy, reliable, resilient, responsive

Loves unconditionally: forgiving, accepting, authentic, rewarding

Power couple

DEVALUATION in shared fantasy

She is ... BAD MOMMY (breast)

Imperfect, all bad, persecutory

Unsafe, untrustworthy, unreliable, fragile/weak/vulnerable

Manipulative, transactional, fake, denying, rejecting, frustrating

Traitor, envious, passive-aggressive

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GOOD MOTHERBAD MOMMYBuy MOSTAmazon Store

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