Prof Sam Vaknin
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When Narcissist in Tears, You Are in Trouble (Frustration-Aggression)
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39:43Now PlayingWATCH Why Narcissists Cry at the MoviesSelfpity, not Empathy
Next time you see your narcissist lachrymose, flee away: you are in danger! Crying is a part of the prosody of entraining.
You are a wraith, an internal object. Defying this role frustrates the narcissist.
Frustration, loss of control, anxiety Emotional dysregulation of negative affects Challenged grandiosity (shame, vulnerability) Self-pity Virtue signaling Manipulation.
Partly Machiavellian emotional blackmail, guilt-tripping, and triggering empathy and maternal instincts.
Self-pity triggers splitting and psychopathic protector self-state (reminiscent of processual mechanism in MPD).
The narcissist is a potent adult with the mindset of child: frustration-aggression, magical thinking, temper tantrums, splitting of maternal figure.
Seeks to destroy the cause of his frustration but perceives it as temporary: it is all in his mind, so he has the power to restore you.
Frustration
Frustration-aggression hypothesis
Frustrative nonreward hypothesis
Frustration tolerance
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