Your Brain Wants Variety — Your Marriage Wants Monogamy. Now What?

**Can You Stay Sexually Satisfied in a Long-Term Relationship? Or Are We All Just Monogamy-Delusional?** With Dr. Lindsay Weisner*

Let’s get real: Your brain is wired to crave novelty, variety, and newness. So how the hell do you keep the spark alive after 15+ years of sex with the same person? Is monogamy a noble lie? Or are swingers actually onto something?

In this hilarious, honest, and seriously insightful episode, Dr. John sits down with psychologist and unfiltered firecracker Dr. Lindsay Weisner to tackle the big questions:

- How do you stay aroused and intrigued with your long-term partner?

- What’s the secret to keeping sex fun and satisfying without swapping spouses?

- Why is it so damn easy to fall into a sexual rut — and how do we climb out?

Lindsay pulls no punches and will leave you laughing, cringing, and questioning everything you thought you knew about love, lust, and long-term commitment. She’s got the humor of a stand-up comic, the credentials of a legit shrink, and the boldness of someone who gives zero f*cks about sugarcoating the truth.

**About Dr. Lindsay Weisner:**

Psychologist. Podcaster. Author. Badass. Lindsay practices in Long Island, NY, hosts the *Neurotic Nourishment* podcast, and co-authored *Ten Steps to Finding Happy* — a book launched on the UN’s International Day of Happiness (yes, that’s a real thing). She’s got a doctorate, a fellowship from the NIH, and a mouth that doesn’t quit.

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Whether you’re single, partnered, or “monogamish,” this convo will make you think twice about how you define sexual satisfaction — and how to keep things hot when the honeymoon phase is a distant memory.

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