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If every difficult conversation turns into an argument, this is the shift you need.
Dr. John and Dr. Julie Gottman, founders of The Gottman Institute and the world’s leading relationship researchers, have spent 50 years studying how couples bring up hard topics without hurting each other.
The difference isn’t what you say. It’s how you say it.
Instead of starting with criticism or blame, healthy conversations start with something simple:
“I’m feeling…”
“I’m worried about…”
No attacking. No diagnosing your partner. Just what’s actually going on for you.
That one shift changes everything.
Your partner stops defending. They actually listen. And the conversation becomes something you can solve together.
On this episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast, the Gottmans break down how to have difficult conversations in a way that brings you closer so you feel heard, understood, and like you’re on the same team.
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