Believe what their behavior is telling you | Mel Robbins #Shorts

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Their behavior is telling you the truth.

If someone’s actions show you that your needs aren’t a priority, believe them. That’s the “Let Them” part.

But then comes the harder piece: “Let Me.” Let me ask myself, “Is this behavior what I deserve? Is this what I’m willing to accept?”

Because here’s the thing: people only change when they want to or when they can. And if you’ve clearly asked for what you need and they still won’t step up, then you’re left with a choice.

You can’t keep clinging to the fantasy of who you wish someone would be while ignoring who they’re showing you they really are.

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