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Stop Chasing "The Spark" | Mel Robbins #Shorts

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Order your copy of The Let Them Theory 👉 👈 The #1 Best Selling Book of 2025 🔥 Discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words. Let Them.

One of the biggest dating myths that’s keeping you single?

Waiting for the instant spark.

Logan Ury, Harvard-trained behavioral scientist, dating expert, and one of the most trusted voices on modern dating and relationships, says that waiting for the spark is costing you real love.

The research from Logan is clear: only 11% of couples experience love at first sight.

This episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast is full of the best dating advice no one ever told you, and Logan has the data, psychology, and tools to help you stop spiraling and start dating with confidence.

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