The Toxic Loops Nobody's Talking About in Dating | Mel Robbins #Shorts
February 21, 2026
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as posted by the channelOrder your copy of The Let Them Theory 👉 👈 The #1 Best Selling Book of 2025 🔥 Discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words. Let Them.
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Have you ever wondered why dating feels so intense and exhausting?
Logan Ury, a Harvard-trained behavioral scientist, world-renowned researcher, dating expert, bestselling author, and one of the most trusted voices on modern dating and relationships, has the reason why:
Attachment styles.
According to Logan Ury about 50% of people are securely attached… but most of them are already in relationships.
So the dating pool is often anxious and avoidant people finding each other over and over again.
One person chases because they’re terrified of being abandoned.
The other pulls away because they’re terrified of being smothered.
And both people walk away thinking, “Why does this always happen to me?”
Whether you’re single, dating, in a relationship, or looking for advice for someone you love, this episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast will completely change how you think about dating and love, and also give you the tools to find your person.
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