Prof Sam Vaknin
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You Don't Deserve to Be Happy, Loved (Bad Object)
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December 26, 2022
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Anger at dead parents who install and instill harsh inner critic (superego is part of ego and impairs reality testing).
Bad object messaging: 1. You are unlovable 2. You don’t deserve happiness.
All people are lovable (number of permutations with 6 billion adults, even serial killers in prison)
Happiness is not a desert, it has to be merited and earned
But bad object uses introject to generate ANTs (Automatic Negative Thoughts) which are self-sabotaging (self-undermining), self-defeating, self-harmful, self-trashing, and self-destructive.
Some people reject happiness and embrace misery. They belong to either of three groups.
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