Prof Sam Vaknin
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Impotent Sexual Narcissist: Erectile Dysfunction, Premature Ejaculation
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35:28Now PlayingNarcissism is associated with sexual entitlement, degradation, and aggression (though not with coercion: the narcissist needs to feel irresistibly desirable).
When forced into true intimacy and a firm demand for reciprocity, some narcissists experience erectile dysfunction (ED) or premature ejaculation.
Such non-virile malfunctions are the discernible outcomes of their performance anxiety and the challenge to their grandiosity engendered by an equal partner in an egalitarian state: between the sheets, we are all the same.
The narcissist expects women to be awed, inspired, entertained, and be irresistibly attracted by his impersonal performance in other settings (such as the workplace). This is vicarious courtship, wooing by proxy, a non-romantic shortcut in lieu of true attentiveness to his partner.
Spending time with a woman and investing persistence, intimacy, and succor in a budding relationship bore the narcissist to tears because he has to feign interest in another person, essentially a prop and a mute witness to his grandeur - and no one can conceivably be as interesting as he is. She must never be allowed to steal the limelight from him.
LITERATURE
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Banbury, Samantha, Moneta, Giovanni B., Chandler, Chris and Hutchison, Paul (2022) The relationship between erectile dysfunction, sexual self efficacy and the dark triad. International Journal of Scientific Research in Science and Technology, 9 (6). pp. 484-497. ISSN 2395-6011
Krishnan G, Padickaparambil S, Thomas J, Thomas I. Sexual Narcissism among Men with Sexual DysfunctionsAn Exploratory Study. Online J Health Allied Scs. 2023;22(4)1. Available at URL
Ajo, R., Inda, MdM., Mateu, M. et al. Personality and psychiatric disorders in chronic pain male affected by erectile dysfunctionprospective and observational study. Int J Impot Res 33, 339347 (2021).
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