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1:40Now PlayingWhen an avoidant ex comes back, it can be tempting to see reconnection itself as proof that things have changed. But wanting the relationship again and being ready to show up differently are two very different things.
Pay attention to patterns, not promises. Are they taking accountability for what happened? Are they communicating more consistently, staying present through uncomfortable conversations, and actively working on the behaviors that created distance before?
Real change tends to show up through repeated actions over time—not just intense feelings when there’s a fear of losing the relationship.
What would you need to consistently see from an ex before you’d feel confident that something has genuinely changed?
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