Prof Sam Vaknin
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How to Manage Toxic Shame

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July 28, 2024

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Shame is self-directed, self-negating anger at helplessness in the face of overwhelming external circumstances or uncontrollable internal impulses and behaviors.

Shame: aggression, prolonged grief, introjection (if abuser POV, society).

Affect of conscience: shame.

Self-audiencing (negative vs. positive in narcissistic self-supply).

Solution:

Manage your anger don’t let it manage you ()

Love yourself ()

Unlearn helplessness ()

(Life's Wisdom playlist )

Don’t face – efface.

Get underwhelmed – not overwhelmed.

Change circumstances, environment.

Control your impulses.

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