April 15, 2026
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3:21Now PlayingThe saying “Never let them see you sweat” reflects a belief that leaders should always project perfect composure and poise. And yet, this type of inauthenticity can actually undermine high performance. When leaders hide their true selves, people can sense it, creating an environment of artificial harmony where people seek approval rather than building productive relationships.
In this video lesson, Carla Harris shares ways to meet the moment while staying real.
Learning Objectives
Embrace facets of your authentic self.
Connect with others intentionally.
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About Carla Harris:
Carla Harris is a Senior Client Advisor at Morgan Stanley. She is the author of several books, including Strategize to Win, Expect to Win, and her most recent, Lead to Win. She is a gospel recording artist and public speaker with a growing following on her YouTube channel @carlaharris where she gives career advice. She also sits on the boards of several community organizations.
Harris has been named by Fortune magazine among “The 50 Most Powerful Black Executives in Corporate America,” Black Enterprise named her one of the “Top 50 African Americans on Wall Street,” and Essence magazine named her among “The 50 Women Who are Shaping the World.”
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