6 Ways to Use My “Let Them” Theory to Improve Any Relationship | The Mel Robbins Podcast
November 13, 2023
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as posted by the channelOrder your copy of The Let Them Theory 👉 👈 The #1 Best Selling Book of 2025 🔥 Discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words. Let Them.
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Wouldn’t it be nice if there was a way to not get so annoyed or frustrated with the people that you love?
There is.
It’s called the “Let Them” theory. Mel discovered it while arguing with her son about a taco stand, and she hasn’t stopped using it since.
She first explained the “Let Them” theory in a 60-second reel on Instagram. 63 million views later. The verdict is in. Everyone loves the “let them” theory.
Today, Mel is in the studio, taking your calls live and teaching you 6 ways to improve any #relationship with the “Let Them” theory.
In this episode, you hear Mel cover topics like:
How to handle a mother-in-law who is not supportive
Feeling left out? Good. You need better friends
Why moving in with your parents is better than living with an ex
What to say when your sibling wants to gossip about your mom
Why being the family peacekeeper creates a war inside you
How to stop being the “fixer” in your relationships
The truth about addiction in a family and the role you need to play
Why your dad’s gambling problem isn’t yours to fix
How rescuing people robs them of the problems they need to face
What to do when your parents’ marriage is in crisis
How to tell a friend you are sick of hearing about their relationship drama
Why you shouldn’t be the “therapist” for your friend group
Why it's normal for friends to drop you when you start drawing boundaries
The art of putting yourself first: “Let me” be happy for a change
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