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2:35:12Now PlayingIn this episode, I discuss the psychology and biology of desire, love and attachment. I explain how childhood attachment types are thought to inform adult attachment styles to romantic partners, and I describe some of the major theories of human mate selection, relationships and infidelity. Additionally, I explore the neurobiology and proposed subconscious processing underlying desire, love and attachment, including the roles of empathy and “positive delusion.” I outline how self-awareness can shift one’s relationship attachment style towards securely bonded partnerships. Finally, I describe specific tools and supplements that have been researched to increase libido and sex drive. Throughout the episode, I explain the science and key mechanisms underlying romantic love and outline tools for those seeking to find a strong, healthy relationship, or for those wanting to strengthen an existing relationship.
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Romantic lovean fMRI study of a neural mechanism for mate choice
Relationshipspecific Encoding of Social Touch in Somatosensory and Insular Cortice
Investigating reallife emotions in romantic couplesa mobile EEG study
Brain Knows Who Is on the Same WavelengthRestingState Connectivity Can Predict Compatibility of a FemaleMale Relationship
Manipulation of SelfExpansion Alters Responses to Attractive Alternative Partners
Randomized Clinical Trial on the Use of PHYSTA FreezeDried Water Extract of Eurycoma longifolia for the Improvement of Quality of Life and Sexual WellBeing in Men
For additional links and resources on Maca, Tongkat Ali and Tribulus, also see links in “Human Effect Matrix” at examine.com.
Book Links
AttachedThe New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find and Keep Love
Right Brain Psychotherapy
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage WorkA Practical Guide from the Country’s Foremost Relationship Expert
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The Gottman Institute Love LabA ResearchBased Approach to Relationships
New York Times The 36 Questions that Lead to Love (1/9/2015)
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